Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Judge not....

     Originally I had decided not to blog about celebrities and their drama. However, there are certain celebs that I am drawn to, whether it be for their impeccable sense of style, or their positive demeanor.
     In this case, it is Kim Kardashian. As of yesterday, after 72 days of marriage she decided to call it quits with hubby Kris Humphries. Upon the announcement,thousands of "fans" took to the internet to call the marriage fake, and used the opportunity to bash Kim and her decision.
     First, how is it that people can call themselves fans and bash her all in the same breath? Real or fake, her decision to end her marriage was just that. HER decision. Who are we to judge someone that had the courage to do something that many of us don't, and that is, to walk away. Many of us will stay at the job, or in the relationship or situatioin that does us more harm than good simply because we are afraid of what other people will think if we walk away (myself included).
     We would rather live a life of misery than to be judged by our peers.
     Kim realized in 72 days what many of us won't figure out in a lifetime: you are directly responsible for your own happiness. Find it or lose it.
   And before anyone starts pointing fingers at her or anyone else for the decisions that they make, they should make sure that there hands are clean.

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