It is January 1, 2012. Many of you woke up the this morning the same way, doing the same thing and expected a change. Isn't that the definition of insanity, doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a different result. So by definition, that would make you crazy.
In order to see a change you must be the change. When you wake up, the first thing you must do is give thanks. You were able to take a breath, open your eyes and move your feet. Someone else was not blessed to see another day.
When drama comes (and if you walk with HIM it will), accept it, address it and move on. Do not dwell in a place of negativity and emptiness.
Accept that you may not be where you want to be, figure out how to change it, do it, and move on. Stop dwelling on what you don't have. Give thanks you are not where you used to be.
Accept that your mate is not perfect, address any issues that you may have, agree to fix them, or move on. Be with someone who can value, respect, trust, appreciate and love you unconditionally. You deserve the best, not the rest. You should never be someone's option.
Accept that your true friends can offer a solution, not become part of the problem. True friends will not allow you to fail, nor will they set you up for failure. They catch you when you fall so you never hit the ground. If your friends are not assets, accept it, address it and find new friends.
It may be a new year, but if you don't make changes, it will be the same year you just left. Celebrate every day as if its the last. Be the change you want to see.